Monday, April 30, 2007

An Idea

Well, it's been a week since my last posting, and some are getting rather cynical about the number of comments on it, so I guess it's time for a new one. (Becca, you start the comments craze on this one and see if we can beat 33 )

Today I am only slightly bitter. Matt was on call for Federal Jury Duty this month, every week when he called in, he was not needed. Wouldn't you know that the last day of the month he gets called in. He just served on a County Jury two years ago. For those of you who know Matt, you know he is very thoughtful and conscientious, he feels like it is our civic duty to serve on Juries. He makes a good point that if all the moral people try to get out of duty what would happen to the system. However, with crunches at work and his Dr.'s appnts. for the Toxo, now is not a good time for him to serve. He has to go in this afternoon for Jury selection and may have to miss Josiah's end of the year recital, which is the greatest hardship of all. Of course in the grand scheme of things this little Jury Duty annoyance is just that, an annoyance.

So on to a brighter note. I have so enjoyed this cyber world of connecting. Not only is it a joy to keep in better touch, it is a challenge and encouragement. As I read your blogs, I find myself motivated to be more disciplined, Christ-like, creative, and I have laughed very hard.

Which leads me to a thought I had the other day as I was looking through a homeschooling catalogue entitled Timberdoodle. It is a really neat catalogue that sells all sorts of home education products including curriculum. The thing that makes it unique is that the family who publishes the catalogue reviews everything they sell.(And they sell a lot) It's so nice to be able to read a review on every product and learn how it works, what age it is appropriate for and how it compares to other items. This catalogue saves home educators time, in wading through everything that is out there and money, not having to try a dozen things only to realized they are not well suited to your family.

As most of you know school, for me in general, was a social phenomena. I did what I had to, to be considered "average" and then "enjoyed" the rest of the day socializing. So most of my real education didn't really take place in a classroom. My love for learning has been developed as an adult. I now thirst for knowledge and have even gained some through reading and experience. However, with two small boys the experience department has been narrowed down to mostly family experiences, and so it will probably be for the next several years. While reading is still a big part of my life, really it is a luxury. It seems more efficient to read only worthy books or bother with worthwhile experiences. This is where you come in. This really is an extension of Tara's idea. On her site she has a "recommendations section". It would be so nice to have a network of people you trust recommending helpful books, good movies, nice music, great food/recipes, or even the best place to buy whatever at the best price. Just your recent learning experiences that would save others time and money or help our families pick a good spot for vacation or read a book that will help us be better Servants of Jesus and those around us. We could make recommendations of things we found helpful and a brief review of why we like it on each of our blogs. So what do you think? This could be a way to get more "hits" on your site. ;) I will lead by example and see who joins in. I hope you will, because I know each of you have wisdom to share that would help me.

Well, the boys are outside playing and I need to bring them in and bathe them before we head to Carbondale. They look like the children you see in literature for the Christian Children's Fund. I'll post a picture tomorrow to prove it. :)

13 comments:

kayla said...

I'm so excited that I get to leave the first comment on this post. Aboslutely wonderful idea. I hate getting videos for my kids that have been highly recommended and then having to turn them off.
I must comment on your apology.
While I don't think you owe one to anybody, I must say that I understand the fear of not being taken seriously as a wife and mother. I still look back on our school days and kill myself laughing, but realize that much of our stupidity had really bad timing. I think that trick of being well rounded adults (I am round) is realizing the appropriate times to act silly.
That's my two cents worth.

J Luck said...

1. Juwah, your boys are beautiful!!!!
2. great idea!
3. so... you guys are starting to make me feel insecure. do you really feel grown up? I have to keep reminding myself that I am now over 30 and have multiple children. I think I'm going through adolescence backwards. I'm far more worried about peer acceptance now than I ever was as a teen/young adult. Not that I bow to peer pressure, more of just a longing to find like-minded people or at least people I identify with, just to know I'm not the only oddball out here.

Kelly S said...

About the apology Julia, I think we all feel that way - at least I do at times. Sometimes I see people that I went to school with and cringe at the thought that they may remember some of the crazy things about me! But, I know I learned so much during those years - and, we had so much fun didn't we?! By the way, uh-hum (that was a clearing-my-throat noise)...why am I not a lovely lady? www.kellystamper.blogspot.com :):)

Aimee said...

I enjoyed reading your list of books, etc. and I thought you might like to see mine. =) I enjoy your blog.....

Kim M. said...

Love your idea.. I am a major researcher these days into the mom-ly, wife-ly things> And I am always venturing into something new so I always have these seemingly great ideas (well maybe for a week until I find something new I am interested in). Ask Kelly, she has to put up with a lot if my new ideas. She does it graciously though.

Kimberly said...

Good idea...I will carry on the idea w/my2cents worth at some pt. soon (actually I have done that a little already, but just not as a list...and you know how I love lists!) thanks for the inspiring postcard!:)

Julia said...

Kayla;
You were the normal one. :) I agree though, I'm still goofy too, just maybe know when it's the right time to be goofy.
Jody;
Wow, I'm with ya sister, I tell my hubby I can't believe I'm older now than Jesus ever was. I am fortunate to have a group of like-minded friends here that are like family to me. I know a lot of us are scattered and the places we have moved to haven't all been places that we are able to find "kindred spirits" yet. But I guess that's why this blogging thing is so nice.
Kelly;
You are the lovliest of the lovlies (boy, am I gonna get flack for that), but I didn't know you blogspot address. With you and Jody I can click on your name and a link to your site comes up but no address. So now that I have your address you are officially on the lovely link list. :)
Aimee;
Good to hear from you. I'm looking forward to checking out your recommondations on your blog.
Kim M;
Some of the greatest ideas come from small ideas being bounced off enough people to make them great, so never fear. :)
Kimberly;
I knew you'd love the post card.

Tara said...

Ah, me dear Hoo-lia:

Never fear! No jealousy issues here! I thought it was very amusing of Kelly to point that I could now return to your blog!! :)

Did Matt make it to the recital? So sorry if he didn't. Wouldn't his physical issues be a worthy cause for exemption? Although, I'm sure I'd want someone as thorough and methodical as Matt to serve on my jury if I were heading to the hoosegow!
Love ya!

lauralavon said...

Great idea! You got my brain ta goin'. I enjoyed reading your list; Raisy wants to read the Lemony Snicket books. I need to read The Great Divorce. That's one of his I haven't read yet.

sarahmfry said...

Wow! LOVE your list....we share many of the same favorites. I find myself walking around the house singing "lléveselo.... lléveselo,lléveselo,lléveselo(lléveselo)!!" Obnoxious.

Have you read "The Well Educated Mind?" I just started it and am very excited about it. Some deep waters to dunk your thirst for knowledge. Sounds like your cup of tea. I've just barely discovered your blog, but am enjoying it already.

Anonymous said...

Good idea, my dear. I like the list -- although I don't have children. I'll try to add some books that I think are must reads for young and old alike.

By the way, I believe that I spent some quality time with you (and Alfonso) during some of that "socializing" you were talking about. I have no regrets, and I'll stand by that! I think we were astonishingly well adjusted as teenagers. :) (In all honesty, we may have been annoying, but we were pretty funny.)

Julia said...

Sarah;

Thanks so much for getting that crazy song in my head! :) I have not read, The Well Educated Mind, but I will check tonight at our library to see if they have it. Thanks for the suggestion.

Adios

Julia said...

Sonja;

Yes please, make a list. After your last book suggestions I am anxious for more. I LOVED Red, White, and Black (I'm not sure if that's the right order, but man I wish I could write like that guy.)